Topic: Fashion

Owensby recounts his success in Los Angeles, where he became the first male face for 7 Jeans and worked for other major denim brands like True Religion and Citizens of Humanity. He discusses the "debauchery" of the Milan modeling scene in the early 2000s, explaining that he chose to remain sober to avoid hangovers and maintain his fitness. He emphasizes that being present at events was more important to him than substance use.

The hosts discuss the disappearance of high street staples like Topman and Topshop from the UK market. Nick Hems attributes these shifts to the rise of ultra-fast fashion retailers like Shein, which can move catwalk looks to production in days. They note the struggle of traditional retailers like ASOS to compete with these high-volume, low-cost digital competitors.

The hosts trade fashion critiques, moving from "safe" office attire to jokes about wearing PVC and leather. A brief mention of a pet hamster escaping serves as a teaser for a full story to be told in the following week's episode.

The hosts share embarrassing stories about grooming and hair. One host recalls taking a picture of 90s star Jason Donovan to a hairdresser, only to be told the style was impossible to replicate. Another recounts a disastrous attempt at a DIY haircut with clippers where the guard fell off, leaving a "landing strip" bald spot right before a night out.

A bi-weekly men's group called The Dad Call provides a space for fathers to discuss challenges related to global lockdowns, Christmas financial pressures, and co-parenting. Jensen shares personal anecdotes about his past fashion choices, including a purple silk shirt that nearly got him thrown off Grimsby Pier and uncomfortable tartan punk trousers used for clubbing.

Making an effort with appearance is framed as a sign of respect and value for one's partner. Studies are cited indicating that getting dressed is one of the most stressful parts of the day, particularly for men who may lack a support system for fashion experimentation. The hosts compare the "Simon Cowell" uniform approach to the positive impact of showing a partner they are worth the effort of dressing up.

Men often stick to the same brands and sizes because department stores and online retailers offer an overwhelming variety that leads to confusion. Jensen admits that as a father, he has fallen out of practice with shopping for himself because his budget and time are focused on his children. This lack of practice results in a loss of confidence when trying to assemble new outfits.

The discussion emphasizes the need for couples to break their routine by turning off the TV and scheduling regular date nights to reconnect. Jensen asks about the risks of wearing "wild and outrageous" clothes on a date. Trott responds that while it may feel risky, wearing something expressive can signal confidence and authenticity, provided the clothes are the right fit and color.

Jensen shares a story about a man named Ryan who bought a gold Dolce & Gabbana jacket. Despite the jacket being "ridiculous," Ryan claimed that wearing it made him feel like a celebrity and even helped him get ushered to the front of nightclub lines. Trott observes that such bold choices can be perceived as sexy because they demonstrate a man's roundedness and self-assurance.

Trott debunks various traditional fashion "rules," such as not mixing blue and black or always wearing black shoes with suits. She advocates for "dress trainers" with trousers, noting that comfort is paramount. She encourages men to question whose "voice" is telling them they can't wear certain combinations and to prioritize having fun with their style instead.