Topic: The One

4 chapters across the catalog

Ezra Vancil Addiction, Divorce and the Rebuild Nobody Saw Coming
Episode 181 7:08 - 10:45

181: Ezra Vancil Addiction, Divorce and the Rebuild Nobody Saw Coming

Media Portrayals of Fathers, Little House on the Prairie

Ezra Vancil and the host compare wholesome 1970s and 80s television families, like those in Little House on the Prairie and The Waltons, to modern media tropes. They critique the shift in the 1990s toward depicting fathers as "buffoons," citing Homer Simpson and King of Queens as examples of the decline in strong paternal role models.

What Is Love? 7 Reasons Men Get Love Wrong
20:46 - 24:14

What Is Love? 7 Reasons Men Get Love Wrong

Love as a Chapter, Rejecting the One Myth

The concept of "The One" is dismissed as a misnomer that causes unnecessary suffering for men when relationships end. Referencing ideas found in Rollo Tomasi's work, the segment explains that love exists in chapters—such as marriage, early parenthood, or toddler years—and that the end of a chapter is not the end of the world. Grieving is acknowledged as natural, but long-term collapse over a breakup is framed as a failure to recognize the abundance of potential partners.

Talking Powerfully To Your Wife, Kids Or Ex with Tracy Poizner
17:01 - 19:15

Talking Powerfully To Your Wife, Kids Or Ex with Tracy Poizner

One For The Dads Facebook Group, Restorative Parenting Resources

Tracy Poizner shares resources for listeners, including her Facebook group "One For The Dads" and a website link for the "Undeletable Dad" ebook. She clarifies her use of Gary Chapman’s "Five Love Languages" as a tool within her own "restorative parenting" framework. This approach uses non-verbal communication to repair and strengthen the bonds between fathers and their children.