
Is Nice Guy Syndrome Killing Your Marriage?
Competition Anxiety, Restoring Relationship Attraction
The concept of competition anxiety suggests that being 100% available at all times can decrease a partner's attraction and respect. Men are encouraged to focus on personal fitness and independent activities to create a healthy level of tension and "frisson" within the marriage. Effective communication is framed as expressing needs through first-person "I feel" statements rather than making demands, which forms the basis of the Relationship Reset tool.


