Episode 4 · Tuesday, 3 October 2023

Episode 4: What to do when you don't feel like it

Ditch the grind of hustle culture for a sustainable approach to productivity that uses sensory rituals and environment shifts to conquer the dreaded blank screen.

By Unfrazzle | 9m listen | 6 chapters
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Unfrazzle · No. 4

About this episode

Louise Miller launches the Make It Happen Club membership to provide solo business owners a sanctuary for clarity and motivation away from hustle culture. This initiative targets entrepreneurs struggling with the guilt of the blank screen and the friction of non-creative business administration. Miller argues that while intuitive flow is ideal, relying solely on inspiration leads to critical failures in accounting and long-term strategy.

Business owners frequently oscillate between total avoidance and forced productivity when facing tasks like LinkedIn engagement or financial reporting. Miller proposes state-shifting rituals as a third alternative to willpower, utilizing sensory triggers such as RuPaul's Drag Race clips or TED talks to alter internal energy. Specific techniques include moving from a laptop to a physical notebook on a sofa to spark creativity or using 30-minute timers paired with high-energy music to gamify social media outreach. These rituals serve as a bridge for tasks that cannot be outsourced but feel burdensome during low-energy periods.

Louise Miller shares her personal transition from desk-bound stagnation to movement-based productivity through walking and dancing. The Unfrazzle host encourages listeners to leave reviews on Spotify and iTunes to help more visionaries find sustainable workflows. This episode provides a practical framework for anyone needing to stir the pot when the initial excitement of a project fades.


CHAPTER 01 / 6 Discussion

Louise Miller, Make It Happen Club Membership Launch

Louise Miller introduces the Unfrazzle podcast, a resource for solo business owners looking to execute big visions without overwhelm. The episode opens with an invitation to join the Make It Happen Club, described as a quiet sanctuary for clarity and motivation. Miller outlines her mission to help listeners move away from hustle culture toward a sustainable approach to productivity.

louise miller· unfrazzle· make it happen club· solo business owner· productivity

00:00 Before we get going, I have an invitation for you. If you're ready to find out how much easier it becomes to get things done when you have Make It Happen Club in your life? The doors are open to new members right now and i would love for you to join us! So Make It Happen club is a calm quiet sanctuary where you get the clarity focus and motivation you need Hello and welcome to Unfrazzle with me Louise Miller. If you're a solo business owner and you have a big exciting vision and loads of ideas that you want to get out in the world but without drowning in a sea of overwhelm, then this is the podcast for you. Each week I'll be sharing bite-sized insights to help you stop faffing and stay focused so you can make your brilliant ideas happen and make a bigger impact in the world It's time to step away from the hustle and find a kinder more sustainable approach to productivity So grab yourself a cuppa and let's get started

CHAPTER 02 / 6 Discussion

Overcoming Procrastination, Resistance to Non-Creative Business Tasks

Business owners often struggle with the guilt of staring at blank screens when they are not in the mood to create content. While intuitive entrepreneurs prefer working in alignment and flow, relying solely on inspiration can lead to neglected tasks like accounting or administrative work. Outsourcing is recommended for tiresome tasks, but even enjoyable activities like social media engagement can occasionally feel burdensome.

procrastination· content creation· business accounts· outsourcing· creative flow

01:31 Has this ever happened to you? So, you promised yourself that you'd write a blog today but just don't feel like it. You sit down and stare at the blank screen. The blank screen stares back at you accusingly! You desperately want to be creating and sharing content more consistently but its such a struggle to get started so you pick up your phone and begin to scroll your social media as the guilt about what you should do builds So I think we've all had moments like that haven't we? Where we know what we need to be doing but we're just not in the mood. And many of my clients are very intuitive and they don't want to force themselves to work on something when they're not feeling it, and i completely understand that! We all want to enjoy our work, we want to be able to listen to what we need and to feel in flow and to feel in alignment as we move through our days... That's the dream isn't it?! But

02:25 We do need to be careful that we don't let that sabotage our progress because if we only ever act when we feel like it, there's going to be a whole lot of stuff that simply doesn't get done. I mean how many of us ever feel in the mood to do our accounts? So... Of course the ideal solution would be to outsource all of the things you find tiresome and if you are in a position to do that That's brilliant. It is an approach I wholeheartedly recommend, but sometimes even the stuff that we usually find fun or the stuff that only we can do and don't want to outsource, that can trip us up from time-to-time too because much as we love it, sometimes we might not be in the mood to engage on social media or create content or spend time working through our online course that we were really excited to purchase last week

CHAPTER 03 / 6 Discussion

State-Shifting Rituals, Alternatives to Forcing Productivity

When motivation fails, individuals typically choose between doing nothing or pushing through with force. A third option involves using a state-shifting ritual to gently coax oneself into the necessary mindset for a specific task. This approach focuses on stirring the pot and changing one's internal state rather than relying on willpower alone.

state-shifting ritual· productivity· mindset· motivation· intuition

03:18 So what do we do when that happens, when we're just not in the mood? And I think we have three choices. The first two choices are pretty obvious. The first choice is to do nothing and save it for another day. Second choice push through and do it anyway but I want to add a third option to the mix and that third option is to Do What You Need To Do To Get Yourself In The Mood! And I've found myself talking to clients about this third option a lot lately It's about having a ritual that will stir the pot and mix things up a bit. I call this a state-shifting ritual where it is not about forcing yourself to do something but giving yourself what you need to gently coax yourself into a place where you DO feel like doing that thing

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Creating Personalized Rituals, Environment and Sensory Triggers

Developing a state-shifting ritual requires identifying specific tasks that demand different energies, such as the contrast between accounting and public-facing roles. Key elements to consider include changing the physical environment, selecting appropriate music or silence, and incorporating movement like walking or dancing. Inspiration can be drawn from nature, TED talks, or entertainment like RuPaul's Drag Race to provide a necessary energy boost.

environment· music· movement· rupaul's drag race· inspiration

04:04 And I'm going to share some pointers for you now if you fancy creating your own state-shifting ritual. So here's what i invite you to do, first thing is to think about when you might need a ritual so what are the tasks or activities that require you to be in a particular mood and that sometimes you just don't feel like it? Some examples might be you know like I said earlier doing your accounts Or it might be about writing a blog. Or perhaps it's reaching out to potential clients and making those bold moves, to reach out to people that perhaps you don't know You might like to create a few different kinds of rituals depending on the types of tasks that you identify So the reason for that is that sitting down to do your accounts requires a very different energy to being charismatic and sparkly if you're about to do something that's a little more outward facing for example

04:56 So step one is to think about the activities that you might want to create a ritual around. And then step two is to think about what you're going to do to shift your energy and get you in the mood, so some ideas to get you started. You might want to think about your environment, so where do you want to situate yourself when you do this task or what do you want to surround yourself with? Then have a little think about music So would a certain type of music help to energize you if that's what you need or do you need a certain type of music to help to settle and calm you? Maybe it's that, you know in order to do this particular activity you need silence. In which case your ritual would involve turning the music off Then have a think about movement Do you need to shift your energy through movement so it might be that you want

05:46 Crank up some tunes and have a dance. Maybe you need to do some slow stretching, perhaps it's about getting out for a walk and I've been working with a client recently who has wanted to get herself into a more consistent rhythm with her writing and what she found really worked well for her was to go out for a walk first just for 20 minutes and then when she came back from that walk she would sit down and write and she found it so much more easeful doing it that way because that walk was giving Some inspiration, allowing her to kind of ponder what she was going to write so that when she came back she was able to get straight into it and it flowed so much more easily for her. And then you might want to think about nourishment So maybe a cup of your favourite brew would help get you in the mood or perhaps its about having a square or two of your favourite chocolate at your side as you work

06:38 And something else to ponder as you're creating your ritual is inspiration. Do you need some inspiration and if so what do you know inspires you? Is it nature, is it art, is it listening to a TED talk? For me, if ever I feel like I'm flagging and I need a bit of an energy boost, I can just watch 15-20 minutes of an episode of RuPaul's Drag Race and that will set me up for tackling the rest of my day with a little bit more energy So have a little think, you know when you feel you need inspiration how could you top that up for yourself? So you've considered all of those things. You've created a ritual and got a sense of what you're going to do to shift your energy the third but important part this is to write it down write down that new state shifting ritual and keep it handy so that its there to support you whenever you need it

CHAPTER 05 / 6 Discussion

Creative Writing Habits, LinkedIn Engagement Strategies

Specific examples of state-shifting include moving from a desk to a sofa with a notebook and pen to foster creativity away from a laptop. For social media engagement on LinkedIn, setting a 30-minute timer and playing energizing music can turn a chore into a focused, playful activity. These rituals allow for progress on essential business tasks without the feeling of being forced.

linkedin· content creation· creative writing· timers· analog tools

07:29 So just a couple of quick examples of what this looks like for me in case it helps. I know, for example, that i can't think creatively when sitting at my desk so when it comes time for content creation I will always take a notebook and pen to the sofa I'll turn off the music because i can't write when there's music playing, at least not music with lyrics anyway and I make myself a cup of tea. Notice also that I said there that I take a notebook and pen to the sofa because I know that again I can't think creatively when I'm sitting on my laptop Also much as I love connecting with people and engaging on LinkedIn sometimes I don't feel like it so I turn into a bit of fun

08:10 Where I step away from my desk, if it's a nice day i might head outside and crank up some fun energising music set a timer for half an hour and just get going knowing that I only need to be there engaging commenting catching up with people until the timer goes off. So those are some examples of the rituals that I use to help me in my work and this week, I encourage you to think about the activities that you sometimes struggle to get going with and to think about what state-shifting ritual you might create to help you get them done but without feeling like you're forcing yourself. This is really an opportunity for you to get creative, get playful have some fun with it and then see what difference those rituals make to you As always, I hope this helps and i can't wait to see you again soon

CHAPTER 06 / 6 Discussion

Unfrazzle Podcast Outro, Review and Sharing Request

Louise Miller concludes the episode by thanking listeners and encouraging them to share the show on social media. Listeners are invited to leave reviews on platforms such as Spotify and iTunes to help others discover the podcast. The segment reinforces the goal of helping more people bring their business ideas to fruition.

unfrazzle· spotify· itunes· podcast reviews· social media

09:00 Thank you for listening to Unfrazzle. Sharing is caring, so if you loved this episode please share it on your socials or head over to Spotify iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts and leave me a review not only will I be hugely grateful Your ratings and reviews will help others to find this podcast So that even more people can make their ideas happen Thanks so much and see you next time