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Hiding Out vs Showing Up: The Masculine Skill Every Dad Needs
Hiding Out and Showing Off, Negative Coping Mechanisms
A distinction is made between "showing off," which involves forcing a false version of oneself to achieve an outcome, and "hiding out," which is avoiding commitments due to discomfort. Hiding out often leads to negative distraction habits such as excessive drinking, gambling, doom scrolling, or pornography. These behaviors serve as a way to avoid the heavy feelings associated with neglected responsibilities.