What Would Your Super Hero Dad Say About You?

00:00 Welcome! What would your superhero dad say about you? Are you Peter Parker or Tony Stark? Roll theme. Hey dads, Jonnie here from Team Super Dad. Welcome back to the podcast! This is a 10 minute coaching session which there'll be more of coming it's all in line with the launch of The Hero Academy and it got me thinking today about why we call team super dad and

00:41 What does being a Super Dad really mean? And it's not... well, what is it now. It's not just a crap name basically! It's very much about that idea of there's a superhero inside all of us and we want to bring him out to the front you know Tony Stark when you think about Tony Stark he walks and lives Iron Man all the time so this is a 10 minute coaching session it's great to have you on board I hope you get a lot from this there'll be more these coming Along with our regular 60 minute interviews and more expert hangouts. And I'm still working on getting a group of dads together to do the wrap up with in a more fun pub bar like get-together to literally take the piss out of each other and wrap up our weeks. So if you're interested in being one of those dads then get in touch, and we can chat about you coming on the podcast on a regular basis until then enjoy The What Super Dad Are You Being? Conversation

01:42 Hello, welcome. This is Jonnie you're with me here on Facebook and everywhere else Team Super Dad people members around the world friends and family very good to see you here What does your superhero dad say about you? This is a flippin awesome conversation The You know, anybody who reads comics watches the Marvel movies you know whether it's Superman from our childhood days or Iron Man and Captain America today we should all be pretty aware of there's the man in the suit and then there's the man on the street. And quite

02:32 Frankly, those two men are not always the same person. You know Clark Kent and Superman one's a bit clumsy and bumbling although very generous and honest and intelligent and committed And then when he pulls off the suit He's ready to take those attributes, those qualities out on his mission His bold courageous adventurous mission Add as dads as parents even if you're a mom watching but we it's a question of who were being in life so that we can achieve so that we can succeed and its not the challenges necessarily making it happen is the challenges is who would be to make it happen.

03:16 I have a lot of love for superheroes. I read a lot of comics when i was a kid, if you've not heard about Team Super Dad before then Team Super Dad is my community and life accelerator for dads who want to create more in their life for health wealth and happiness! We're over at teamsuperdad.com so come join us over there on the free Facebook group on Facebook obviously but You know this idea that we're, I didn't just call Team Super Dad Team Super Dad because it was a sound like a silly name or even a cool name you'll have your own opinion on that but

03:56 In essence, like who we want to be. Like the... I'm going to rip that suit off! Who we want to be on the outside is a picture of our vision on the inside Our own business, our own family, our love life, our partner, our growing old together, holidays cars big house whatever the vision is we have for our life it's gonna take something It's gonna take tearing out insecurities, our own failures those experiences of life that have perhaps knocked us back. Some of some of us are actually doing it in the opposite way they're having great successes but not actually living the life that they want to have so its really thinking about who

04:44 Who are you know what is that super hero say about you so what does Iron Man say about Tony Stark. He probably says he's quite cool bloke, What does Superman say about Clark Kent? Well like I said before he is considerate and bumbling but he's very loving and generous and the question you want to ask yourself who are you being Who are you being to create that picture, that vision, that version of your life that's... That you want for yourself and your family? Who are you being like in those moments when you meet someone new. Are they knocked off their feet by your confidence and your conversation and I don't know.. You don't have to be a joker to be funny but like

05:30 When you walk into the room, what's the impression that you're leaving with people? Speaking for myself I know i've gone on that roller coaster all the way through my life. So many points i can think of one in particular being seventeen when I got like incredibly bad spots for a year and it also came at time when my dad had basically gone bankrupt we didn't have anywhere to live. Who was I being at that time wasn't who I was before then, wasn't who I was being two years later when I went off to university and met loads of people

06:08 Three of the wildest, most fun years of my life. So it's when you can catch yourself and realize who are you being at this moment in time? How does that occur for other people is consistent with the vision and goal that you've got for yourself in your life Quite often when it's not, we really go into ourselves like we get fully confused and insecure. The things that we should be doing to make ourself feel better go out the window whether that's networking dating going out for beers playing football Speaking on stage, making a podcast playing with your kids dating going out with you on a date night with your wife. Like the things that you should be doing to break through to get back into that place where you want to be heading towards your goals The weaker we get the less likely are to do them so then you wanna look in the mirror and say what would my superhero dad What would the superhero me say about me right now?

07:06 Spider-Man's another great example. Before he got bitten by that spider, that fateful day you know Peter Parker was a bit of a wimp basically he was just a bit of a pushover and as he became more and more Spider Man his confidence grew and grew and grew and that is about it, that is about stepping into your suit The Jonnie Jensen Show, Jonnie Jensen, Team Super Dad

07:48 Loving, generous sensitive. What are the attributes that you're being so that you'll achieve the goals that you've got for yourself in your life? And that is the essence of so much as a Team Super Dad program and my work You know, you want to ask yourself who am I being Who is Tony Stark being when he's Iron Man? Who's Tony Stark being when he's Tony Stark? I think it's kind of being the same person whether its divorce business failure and other parts your life like if you've taken a kick Then you've got to pick yourself back up and put in the right system and the tools around you. What I've created for myself in working on Team Super Dad, and pulling this all together is remarkable. And it was the vision I had for myself when I said on that mountain how am I going to fix this? How am I going to fix this? How am I going to fix this? It hasn't been overnight and it hasn't been on my own. It has been a journey with other people with support with

08:43 With realizations, with breakthroughs in different areas that has got me to where I am today. And it's what will get you to where you want to be tomorrow also. So my message today? What does your superhero dad say about you look in the mirror and ask that question and if you want help with it then just get connected up with myself and the Team Super Dad crew. I'll be glad to answer that question for you as well as telling you all about The Hero Academy My name's Jonnie Jensen, Team Super Dad out. Thanks bye!