Monday, 16 February 2026

The Gray Standoff On ABC 20⧸20 Part 2 Of 2 [WX78CRXdBlU]

A father's quest to recover his children from an armed East Texas compound pits local law enforcement against anti-government radicals and a family prepared for war.

By Mike Hanson Archives | 7m listen | 5 chapters
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About this episode

Keith Tarkington faces a desperate legal battle to recover his sons, Sammy and J.D., from an armed compound in East Texas. His father-in-law, John Joe Gray, remains entrenched on the property in open defiance of a court order awarding Tarkington custody. Gray alleges the father is abusive while local authorities refuse to breach the perimeter, citing the presence of armed radicals and the risk of a violent escalation.

Henderson County Sheriff Howard Slick Alfred maintains a policy of strategic patience to avoid a repeat of the 1993 Waco siege. Radio host Alex Jones and Louisiana preacher Michael Trice have arrived at the compound to support the Gray family against what they label government tyranny. The family has stockpiled two years of food and recently discovered a surveillance trailer near the property line, which Sheriff Alfred admitted was used for covert monitoring before its destruction. Gray has signaled a potential shift in the stalemate by inquiring about a court-appointed attorney despite his public declarations of a willingness to die for his land.

Sheriff Howard Slick Alfred jokingly blamed local cows for the destruction of high-tech surveillance equipment discovered by the Gray family. John Joe Gray continues his standoff with the state of Texas while ABC News 20/20 provides exclusive footage of the fortified compound and the armed guards at the gate.


CHAPTER 01 / 5 Discussion

Keith Tarkington Custody Battle and John Joe Gray Compound

Keith Tarkington is engaged in a legal battle to recover his two young sons, Sammy and J.D., from an armed compound in East Texas. The children are being held by their grandfather, John Joe Gray, who refuses to acknowledge a court order awarding custody to Tarkington. Gray claims the father is abusive, a charge Tarkington denies, while local law enforcement remains hesitant to intervene due to the presence of armed radicals at the gate.

keith tarkington· john joe gray· henderson county· texas· custody dispute

00:00 Today this is as close as Tarkington can get to the people he loves the most. I don't know what you're saying until you look Watching for any sign of them from an empty field half a mile away I've been through hell because Know where my kids are? I have custody of them and cannot get the sheriff's department that takes his Rangers FBI Can't even help me go give my children These are Tarkington's boys in happier times. Sammy and his younger brother, J.D., now three and four years old. Would you give me mama kisses? Life was good for the family says Keith until his wife's father John Joe Gray convinced her to leave him They divorced A court later awarded custody of the boys to Keith but he can't get to them He says because his ex-wife and his children are inside Joe Gray's armed compound

00:56 These bunch of radicals are standing outside their gate with guns on saying if we can't have these children no one can. The courts have ruled that they should be with their father, Keith Well that's what we hear but we also here that in Texas unless she has the papers served on her then she is broke no law They say they brought the papers and put them on a fence She wasn't even around here at that time She was living in a different place so she never seen those papers He wouldn't allow us to videotape Tarkington's sons on the compound, but privately Gray admitted that the boys are in there and he says they're fine. So why not return the children to the father? Why not give their chicken to the fox? He accuses Tarkington of being an abusive father. Oh, he's lying! He'll tell you anything he can just get what he wants Have you ever abused these kids in any way? No

01:56 Honey, yeah I'd spank him. You know but i had never left a mark on my children hurts yes because he's raising my children He knows as long as he got them the laws won't come in there and get him But if anyone tries to go in and get him joe gray says this could turn into another waco We can't go crashing through doors and gates and stuff like that. The sheriff of Henderson County, Texas Howard Slick Alfred admits that because there are children inside the compound he's playing a waiting game. I for one am not going to endanger the lives that will be involved maybe different if it was more serious crime It may not be that serious to the sheriff but try telling that to the boys father Yeah well his children ain't in there

CHAPTER 02 / 5 Discussion

Sheriff Howard Slick Alfred and the Waco Siege Comparison

Henderson County Sheriff Howard Slick Alfred is maintaining a waiting game regarding the Gray compound to avoid a repeat of the Waco siege. The Sheriff expresses concern that a forced entry would endanger the lives of the children inside. While Tarkington criticizes the delay as a lack of enforcement, Alfred maintains that time is the best ally to ensure the children are recovered alive.

howard slick alfred· waco· henderson county sheriff· hostage situation· law enforcement

01:56 Honey, yeah I'd spank him. You know but i had never left a mark on my children hurts yes because he's raising my children He knows as long as he got them the laws won't come in there and get him But if anyone tries to go in and get him joe gray says this could turn into another waco We can't go crashing through doors and gates and stuff like that. The sheriff of Henderson County, Texas Howard Slick Alfred admits that because there are children inside the compound he's playing a waiting game. I for one am not going to endanger the lives that will be involved maybe different if it was more serious crime It may not be that serious to the sheriff but try telling that to the boys father Yeah well his children ain't in there

02:48 He says, well it ain't my problem so let's just drag our feet. Do you understand the frustration from the father of these kids? Sure I can understand his frustration and i sympathize with this frustration but uh... He hasn't seen them in a year and a half Why would we want to take the chance on him not being able to see those children alive Back inside the compound, Joe Gray and his family can hold out for a long time. They say they've stockpiled nearly two years worth of food thanks to a few neighbors who are sympathetic and they're not the only ones supporting The Grays. Nice meeting you sir! On our visit to the compound we met Alex Jones, a radio talk show host from Austin I just don't want to see a bloodbath here because they're committed...they're going to defend their property

CHAPTER 03 / 5 Discussion

Alex Jones and Michael Trice Support the Gray Family

Radio host Alex Jones and Louisiana preacher Michael Trice have traveled to the compound to support John Joe Gray against what they characterize as government tyranny. Jones argues the family has a right to defend their property, while Trice claims his presence as a minister is necessary to protect a Christian family from a potential bloodbath. The family has reportedly stockpiled two years of food to sustain a long-term standoff.

alex jones· michael trice· austin· anti-government· religious freedom

02:48 He says, well it ain't my problem so let's just drag our feet. Do you understand the frustration from the father of these kids? Sure I can understand his frustration and i sympathize with this frustration but uh... He hasn't seen them in a year and a half Why would we want to take the chance on him not being able to see those children alive Back inside the compound, Joe Gray and his family can hold out for a long time. They say they've stockpiled nearly two years worth of food thanks to a few neighbors who are sympathetic and they're not the only ones supporting The Grays. Nice meeting you sir! On our visit to the compound we met Alex Jones, a radio talk show host from Austin I just don't want to see a bloodbath here because they're committed...they're going to defend their property

03:39 This family's been harassed and he has a right to live his life as a free human being and defend his property in his family. And then there is Michael Trice, a preacher from Louisiana who traveled hundreds of miles to help defend the Grays from what he calls another Waco When things get so bad that minister has to strap on her weapon to come out and protect good Christian family from tyranny within the government it's getting pretty bad But how bad is it really? The sheriff says rumors of an assault are ridiculous, that the Grays are blowing things out of proportion. A farce... just a farce. A farce! There's never been a siege going on with the Gray property

CHAPTER 04 / 5 Discussion

Sheriff Surveillance Trailer and Covert Operations Allegations

The Gray family discovered a surveillance camera mounted on a trailer near their property, which they cite as evidence of a planned government assault. Sheriff Alfred admitted the equipment was used to monitor movements but claimed the device was eventually destroyed, jokingly suggesting cows were responsible for the damage. The Grays view the incident as a "Big Brother" tactic, while the Sheriff dismisses their fears as paranoia.

surveillance· big brother· covert operations· privacy· henderson county

04:24 Please come over here and get all the date numbers and things, VIN numbers on this piece of Big Brother. But what about this? A surveillance camera mounted on a trailer belonging to the Sheriff's Department Well... well this is a war though you understand It was found near The Grace property just a few weeks ago What's that right there? Covert operations You gotta be kidding The Grace say the sheriff was spying on them in preparation for an assault They are gonna move it here What was this trailer doing there with the surveillance equipment? We were just checking movements and stuff like that. And seeing what was going on. And what happened to that equipment? As far as I understand, they destroyed it. Yeah, I think cows got into it you know... Despite the bit of spying, The Sheriff says the Gray's fears are just paranoia. Plans to assault Joe Gray's compound. I still say time is our best ally